On the Ground in India: Everyday Etiquette for Travelers
India does not expect visitors to know every custom, but it does notice who is paying attention. Small gestures of respect often matter more than perfect language or detailed cultural knowledge.
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Best for: Visitors who want to feel welcome, not just tolerated
Settings: Cities, towns, villages, homes and religious sites
Focus: Clothing, greetings, photos, personal space and public behavior
Tip: When in doubt, watch what local families do and follow their lead
Clothing, touch and personal space
In most of India, modest clothing is a sign of respect rather than conservatism for its own sake. Covering shoulders and knees in public spaces keeps you more comfortable and draws less attention. In busy streets, crowds may press close, but that does not mean physical affection, such as hugging or kissing in public, is widely accepted. A simple nod, smile or spoken greeting usually works better than an unsolicited hug or touch, especially across gender lines.
Homes, temples and small signals of respect
Many homes and smaller guesthouses expect you to remove shoes at the door; if you see a row of footwear outside, follow suit. In temples and some mosques and churches, dress codes are stricter, and head coverings may be requested. Asking quietly, "Is this ok?" as you enter is rarely wrong. Avoid pointing the soles of your feet toward deities, altars or elders while sitting. When offering or receiving items such as money, documents or food, using the right hand or both hands together is considered polite.
Cameras, conversations and curiosity
India is visually rich, and it is natural to want to photograph everything. But people are not props. If you want to take a close image of someone, ask permission with a smile and a simple question, or by raising your camera and waiting for a nod. Many will agree; some will decline. Accept both. Conversations about family, work and food are common; heated political or religious debates can appear quickly, and visitors are not always expected to have strong opinions. Listening more than speaking in those moments shows care for the fact that you are passing through someone else’s everyday life.